我的朋友絆倒了人,
卻告訴大家是我做的。
沒有人懷疑他、沒有人相信我,
我,變成了「壞小孩」……
★第一人稱視角,讓孩子體會「被冤枉」的困境,思考如何傳達事實、化解誤會。
★當糾紛發生時,學習站在不同角度思考,理性梳理事實,不妄下批判。
★藉由主角遭遇,同理曾受誤會所苦的大人與孩子,讓過去被錯待的痛苦,轉變為未來不傷害別人的溫柔。
放學後,我和阿泰、曉莉一起回家。
曉莉被絆倒了,阿泰跟大家說是我做的。
不管我怎麼解釋,都沒有人相信我。
爸爸媽媽說我是「犯了錯還說謊的壞孩子」;
曉莉媽媽指責說出真相的我「把錯推給別人」;
路上偶遇的同學,揮舞著拳頭追趕我;
其他同學則連看都不願意看我一眼;
在學校只要發生不知道是誰做的壞事,
老師就把我叫去辦公室。
成為「壞小孩」的我,
到底該怎麼做,才能讓其他人聽見我的聲音……
《那時,沒人相信我》描繪一個小小的謊言是如何改變主角烏鴉「我」的生活,讓他變成犯了錯卻不知悔改的「壞小孩」。繪本採用第一人稱敘述,主角坦率、直接的獨白讓讀者忍不住代入他的立場,對他的委屈、悲傷、憤怒、孤單感同身受,並進一步思考,是什麼讓主角陷入這樣的處境?
犯了錯卻說謊、把過錯推給主角的阿泰固然有錯;但傷害主角最深的,其實是對阿泰的謊言照單全收,甚至不願聽取主角說法的父母、老師與同學。他們在主角身上貼上「壞孩子」的標籤,不管主角如何解釋,都不願意放下成見,傾聽他的說法;甚至還使用冷戰、威脅、排擠等霸凌的手段,逼迫主角「認罪」──這樣的事情說來殘酷,在現實中卻時常發生,無論大人或孩子,都可能在某個時候受到誤會,也可能因為誤會而傷害別人。為了避免主角的悲劇在生活中真實上演,我們應該怎麼做呢?
藉由《那時,沒人相信我》,家長、老師可以與孩子一起探討:
◆為什麼說謊是不對的?謊言會為他人帶來什麼傷害?
◆被誤會時,應該用什麼方式與對方溝通,才能被聽見?
【適合國小低年級生】
◆想了解事情真相,要怎麼蒐集資料,才不會只聽到一面之詞?
◆當有人做錯事,可以用傷害的手段來逼迫對方「認錯」嗎?
【適合國小中年級生】
◆刻板印象與標籤影響我們對他人的看法,以此為依據下的判斷公平嗎?
◆「真相」為什麼重要?在新聞媒體、社群網站中出現的極端言論與假訊息,除了傷害「真相」,還會對我們的社會造成什麼樣的負面影響?
【適合國小高年級生】
沒有人能完全了解另一個人,正因如此只要一個謊言、幾句謠言,或一個無心的舉措就有可能導致誤會發生,對當事人的名譽造成巨大破壞。尤其在極端言論、假訊息橫行的網路世界,即便是年幼的孩子,都可能成為被議論的受害者/傳播謠言的加害人。如何在眾口鑠金的情況中,保護自己不要被謠言所傷,並培養不隨風起舞的理性思辨能力,已成為當代孩子的重要課題。
《那時,沒人相信我》給予親子、師生一個契機,在討論本書議題的過程中,同時也領會到「理性溝通」的重要性。希望未來當孩子犯錯時,家長、老師能更有耐心的去釐清事情經過,別再讓下一個孩子的內心產生「沒人相信我」的傷痕!
Specifications 規格
Recommended Age: 3-8 years
Dimensions:21.2 x 30 x 1 cm | 8.35 x 11.81 x 0.39 in
Contents: 48 pages
Publisher: 小熊出版
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