高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
和平國際

高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在

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\480萬名父母一致信賴!人氣兒醫明橋大二教養新作/
★爸媽安心育兒系列──與敏感兒相處的親子幸福處方★
孩子很膽小、超愛哭?其實是孩子直覺敏銳、同理心強!
兒童權威心理醫師的「細膩慢教養」守護韌性、解讀脆弱,
陪伴高敏感孩子尋找安心角落


●當高敏感媽媽遇上高敏感孩子,育兒試煉就此展開
本書作者太田知子擁有兩個可愛的女兒獅夢和兔可,打從出生以來,從每天起床、吃早餐、上幼稚園、洗澡、睡覺等,其他孩子都能理所做到的事情,他們卻要花數倍的時間才能完成,而且常常因為一點小事就放聲大哭,生活中的言行舉止個個都藏著地雷,而一些令作者狐疑「就這樣」的事情,也能讓孩子大哭大鬧,每天都處於崩潰邊緣,每天都問自己「是不是我的教養方式錯了呢?」

直到有一天,作者發現原來這些都是「高敏感孩子」的獨特氣質,並開始接納理解孩子與生俱來的特質,細心觀察後,從此看見更多敏感特質的美好之處。

●你的孩子有這些特質嗎?──
討厭抱抱親親,不喜歡身體接觸
好奇心旺盛,喜歡開拓新世界
謹慎小心、步步為營
共感力很強,對待病患、老年人會特別溫柔
會因為一句話就特別開心,也會因為一句話就崩潰大哭

明明是小事,孩子的反應卻特別大,
並不是因為孩子難搞,而是因為他們擁有「高敏感特質」。
高敏感孩子(HSC,Highly Sensitive Child)」不是身心障礙,也不是疾病,
他們擁有超乎一般人感受能力的氣質。
高敏感孩子會仔細觀察各種小細節,像是氣氛、人的表情、氣味、聲響等。
無論悲或喜,高敏感孩子的感受都比其他孩子要來的強烈。

作者本身是高敏感族群的一員,孩子也具備高敏感特質,因此親子相處中,總是充滿著許多劇烈的情緒波動,作者以自身經驗說明高敏感孩子在各種親子相處時可能產生的各種心境,引導讀者同理共感,讓父母更了解身邊敏感孩子的內心世界:

高敏感孩子在【嬰兒時期】常有的事
在嬰兒時期的高敏感寶寶很容易被各種聲光刺激而哭泣,也有些高敏感孩子很好帶,情況並不一致。不過,高敏感寶寶還是會出現幾個特徵,例如:

→孩子經常盯著對方的臉或感受到周圍環境的變化
→有些孩子很難入睡,一受到細微的刺激就會馬上醒來

高敏感家長的教養處方 - 回應嬰兒的期望,自我肯定感就能成為心靈的基石
雖然孩子只是嬰兒,但是只要回應孩子的期望與需求,就可以為孩子帶來安心感,從中衍生的自我肯定感就能成為成長的心靈基石,孩子會知道自己是重要的存在。

高敏感孩子在【幼兒時期】常有的事
當孩子進入幼兒時期,準備進入幼兒園這個嶄新的世界。然而高敏感孩子不擅於應付新環境及種種變化,熟悉新環境需要一段時間,所以比其他孩子需要更長更多的時間才能適應新生活。甚至有些孩子會大哭大鬧、耍任性,把父母搞得暈頭轉向。

→孩子的味覺、嗅覺特別敏感
例如堅持白飯是白飯、配菜是配菜的吃法,吃到嘴巴裡也不會讓它們混在一起。
→超豐富的想像力
高敏感孩子的腦袋裡面有超多故事!高敏感孩子擁有驚人的發想力及想像力,無論是人或事物,甚至是掉落的樹葉,他們都能從眼睛看到的物品展開一段故事。
→高感受力
高敏感孩子對於無法溝通的植物、動物、嬰兒、外國人等等,也能敏銳察覺他們的感受,所以身邊的大人常會驚訝孩子對著物品自言自語的情況。

高敏感家長的教養處方 - 尊重孩子的步調,同理情緒,就能讓孩子安心成長
高敏感孩子很會安排自己的生活步調,有時容易鬧彆扭又倔強,因此教養高敏感孩子是很辛苦的,如果孩子的步調沒有得到尊重,或是遭受嚴厲斥責,可能對高敏感孩子造成巨大傷害,或是使他們變得恐慌。

這時候,父母必須採取尊重孩子感受的應對方式,不要太在意身旁的人說你會把孩子寵壞,因為唯有尊重並接納孩子的感受,具體回應孩子,例如:「你覺得很討厭吧」、「你很害怕吧」等等,並且以平穩的聲調跟孩子說話,緊緊的擁抱孩子,孩子就能感到安心。

高敏感孩子在【小學生時期】常有的事
小學時期是高敏感孩子獨特才能綻放的時期,另一方面,對高敏感孩子來說,學校是刺激強烈的場所,因為高敏感孩子感受到的刺激是別人的好幾倍,再開心的事情也會感覺累,也有孩子光是去上學就累翻了。若能讓高敏感孩子了解到老師是自己的同伴,教室也是安全的地方,就可以不斷挑戰各種新事物,過得更自在。

→很在意周遭的人
高敏感孩子對他人體貼,卻習慣將自己的事情擺在後面的順位,對他人溫柔,卻對自己很嚴厲,總是不自覺地在責備自己。
→正義感很強
對於不公平、霸凌、暴力等事件,都會強烈感到憤慨。
→對人生會深度思考
高敏感孩子會深入且仔細思考其他孩子不會想到的事情,例如:生離死別。

高敏感家長的教養處方 - 比起輸贏,讓孩子開心的事才是學校生活最重要的事
孩子在學校一定會有彼此競爭的狀況,而「與人比較」也正是高敏感孩子較不擅長應對的部分,父母務必要讓孩子知道,與其在意輸贏或優劣,樂在其中才是更重要的。

高敏感孩子對於一樣事物的感受會是別人的十倍,甚至是百倍,即使碰到這樣的狀況,也不要以「是你想太多了」或「你真是莫名其妙」去否定孩子的感受,不妨以「原來你有這種感覺啊」、「你覺得很難受吧」等話語來接納孩子的感受。

本書由兒童心理專家明橋大二專業監修,提出與「細心愛,孩子更自在」的育兒原則,針對教養高敏感孩子在日常生活中經常發生的情況,以圖解配合文字說明,提出教養解析與引導,透過對高敏感孩子特質的深入了解,去除表象行為帶來的誤解,看見孩子內心的寶石,讓孩子充滿自信地長大成人。
    
高敏感孩子溫柔、細心、富有正義感,並且具有超乎一般人的感受能力,細心觀察並瞭解高敏感孩子的心靈之後,必定可以發掘孩子擁有的美好特質。

Features 本書特色

1. 第一本由高敏感母親視角撰寫,讓父母齊聲「我家孩子也是這樣呀!」的共鳴教養書。
2.收錄高敏感孩子評量表+敏感兒的56個情緒小劇場【全圖解】
3. 由日本知名兒童心理醫師明橋大二監修,建立親子溝通與教養的橋樑,提供與高敏感孩子相處的正確育兒建議。

Specifications 規格

Dimensions: 14.8 x 20.8 x 1 cm | 5.8" x 8.2" x 0.4"
Contents: 128 pages
Publisher: 和平國際

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