正向聚焦:有效肯定的三十種變化,點燃孩子的內在動力

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不是只有好表現,才值得被肯定

  一本寫給不知該如何開口讚美的大人,
  以及受挫孩子的教練之書,
  告訴大人如何以溫暖而堅定的語言表情
  激發孩子的正向成長動力。

  身為家長的你,小時候有被誇獎過嗎?
  成長階段,你是否也曾渴望大人的鼓勵與肯定,
  但得到的常常是指責與「做得不夠好」?

  不論是父母或老師,都希望能與孩子有良好的互動,
  引導他們朝正向健康的人生道路前行,
  但我們往往習慣看見孩子沒做到、做不好的地方,
  以批評、指責、否定的態度要求改進,
  結果不但無法給予孩子力量,反而讓關係緊張。

  具豐富校園輔導經驗的陳志恆心理師,
  繼《受傷的孩子和壞掉的大人》、《擁抱刺蝟孩子》為孩子發聲後,
  要透過《正向聚焦》幫助大人,調整教養的眼光與態度,
  看見孩子的美與善,陪伴他突破自我與成長,
  以不同的思考切入點與各種正向支持策略技巧,
  提出正向聚焦的三十種變化形式,幫助家長與孩子良好正面互動。

  本書主軸:二大脈絡X五種層次X三項佐證

  ‧二大脈絡
  聚焦在表現的「結果」上
  聚焦在表現的「過程」中

  ‧五種層次
  聚焦在「行為表現本身」
  聚焦在「能力強項」
  聚焦在「期待(正向意圖)」
  聚焦在「信念/價值觀」
  聚焦在「身分認定」

  ‧三項佐證
  「自我比較」的正向聚焦
  「向外比較」的正向聚焦
  「標準比較」的正向聚焦

  除了三十種變化形式,本書更提出重新框架、情感聯結、提問式引導等延伸技巧,
  並針對執行正向聚焦可能遭遇的挑戰,提出具體可行的解決之道,
  幫助家長及老師有效落實正向聚焦,為孩子建立健全的成長心態。

本書特色

  → 提供正向聚焦基本句型及30種變化,幫助你啟動正向溝通的循環
  → 二大脈絡X五種層次X三項佐證,從理論到實踐一次奠基
  → 隨書附帶兩個親子情境練習,讓你快速熟悉上手

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All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product. 

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Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.  

 

Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:

  • Sound books and any electronic learning aid may be eligible for replacement within 6 months of delivery. 
  • HAWOOD FURNITURES: Warranty details may be found here.
  • Stokke: Warranty may be claimed here within 1 year from the date of receipt.

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