跟阿德勒學正向教養:從49個練習開始,用鼓勵提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值
跟阿德勒學正向教養:從49個練習開始,用鼓勵提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值
跟阿德勒學正向教養:從49個練習開始,用鼓勵提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值
跟阿德勒學正向教養:從49個練習開始,用鼓勵提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值
跟阿德勒學正向教養:從49個練習開始,用鼓勵提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值

跟阿德勒學正向教養:從49個練習開始,用鼓勵提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值

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★台灣第一本「正向教養」正宗書籍。阿德勒學派教養權威、美國風行超過35年「正向教養」創始人──簡.尼爾森的最新經典力作。
★「正向教養」是美國主流親子教育法之一,以阿德勒心理學為基礎,系列書共出版18本,以16種語言發行全球60國,總銷量高達200萬冊以上。
★台灣首位獲美國PDA正向教育協會認證導師及講師──姚以婷專文導讀、審訂。

行為不當的孩子,是一個受挫的孩子,
挫折感來自於「沒有歸屬感」的信念。
阿德勒相信每個人都在追求歸屬感與自我價值,
停止餵養孩子懲罰和獎賞,用「鼓勵」賦予權力和責任,
孩子才能真正具有自信與能力!

我們無法保護孩子免於人生的苦難。因此,有必要讓他們為此先做好準備。──魯道夫.德瑞克斯

「正向教養」是以阿德勒學說為基礎的教養法,主張消除所有懲罰與獎賞,強調用「鼓勵」來教養孩子。簡.尼爾森在一九八○年代,接受美國聯邦政府委託,主持一項兒童教育研究專案,結果發現家長與教師運用阿德勒心理輔導法,對孩童有明顯正面的影響,因而她發展出一套涵蓋溝通、衝突處理與相互尊重的教養方法。過去三十五年,「正向教養」的理論與200多種實用方法,已經成為美國的主流教養方式。

阿德勒相信改變行為的最佳途徑是要由內而外,幫助扭轉錯誤的信念,協助個人體驗「歸屬於群體」的深層需要。阿德勒去世後,他的門徒魯道夫.德瑞克斯繼續傳布阿德勒學說,將人人平等、尊嚴、尊重等理念擴及父母與師長。阿德勒與德瑞克斯教導我們,孩子所做的行為只是冰山一角,在冰山底層隱藏著行為背後的信念,那才是孩子行為產生的主因。

【正向教養的五大特色】
一般的教養法只討論如何修正孩子的行為,「正向教養」則同時討論行為與其背後的信念,並包含以下五大特色:
.協助孩子感受到情感連結、歸屬感與自我價值。
.父母能同一個時間表現出和善與堅定。
.具有長期的成效。
.教導孩子兼具品格與價值的技能,培養尊重、關心他人、解決問題與合作的精神。
.促使孩子發現自己擁有能力,並且了解如何正確運用這些能力。

【如何運用正向教養工具?】
研究指出,正向教養工具能夠協助孩子自我調整,產生內在動機,並能幫助家庭關係更和諧,對孩子產生長遠的效果。
.破解孩子心中密碼:運用「錯誤目的線索偵測表」與「錯誤目的表」,找到孩子行為背後的原因。
.和善且堅定:從重視孩子的感受開始,表現理解並盡可能提供選項,但仍堅持原則。
.先連結情感,再糾正行為:孩子在感覺好時,會做得更好。傳遞關愛的訊息,建立起親密感與信任,就足以解決問題。
.家庭會議:運用舉辦家庭會議的十步驟,營造氣氛,使所有人專注在解決方案上。
.修復錯誤的3R’s:坦然承認自己的錯誤,透過道歉來和解,一起找出彼此願意實行的解決方案。

本書擷取「正向教養」最經典實用及最新的49項練習,每項都是有利於家庭關係與孩童發展的方法。簡.尼爾森與她的兒女,婚姻與家庭治療師瑪麗.尼爾森.坦伯斯基,以及育有三名子女且為正向教養協會執行長的布萊德.安吉,共同分享親身的育兒經驗,並提供來自世界各地正向教養的成功案例。在孩子性格發展過程中,家長扮演非常重要的角色。在教養路上,給予孩子尊嚴與尊重,提升孩子的歸屬感與自我價值,你將發現孩子不僅能改善負面行為,也會擁有更好的品格與技能。

Specifications 規格

Recommended Age: Parents
Dimensions:17 x 23 x 2.08 cm | 6.69 x 9.06 x 0.82 in
Contents: 416 pages
Publisher: 大好書屋
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